Sorry for calling you a "lady" Noxxville. Didn't mean nothing by it dude.
There's no way to tell who's out there or who's pretending to be who or what. There are all kinds of personas online - birds, dragons, three-headed dogs, spells, spooks, people .. you name it. Gender is the one issue that most often gets confused. You can't imagine how many times I was referred to as a "she" or "her" when I first joined. The name "alohamora" turned out to be very obliquely genderless and leaning more towards the opposite gender if any. But I think as you start moving around the place, people get to know you better and these little things get resolved. Make as many friends as you can dude

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I think you're going about this issue all wrong - too aggressive. You have successfully proven yourself to be a guy, but you are now either Crabbe or Goyle. Now don't get all twisted up about
that. I'm not fooling around with your masculinity any more. I think you fit the bill well .. they're very much like you .. not very subtle and ..
MACHO 
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But you can go back to "Lady Noxx" any time you like dude. I must say that was a lovely name.