I didnt come up with these questions. These have come from a thread at Chamber of Secrets Forums at Mugglenet.com. The Weasley family: A group discussion - Chamber of Secrets I thought; Let's see what Harry Potter Chat says about it too
1) Do you think that anyone gets "lost" in the Weasley family? It's a big group with a lot of strong personalities there. Does everyone get a fair look in?
2) How do you think that Molly and Arthur's relationship has impacted on their brood and how they see the world.
3) What do you think about the fact that we rarely see the entire Weasley Clan together? Is this just "bad fortune" or is there something askew with the family dynamic.
4) How big an impact did Percy's abandonment of his family from GOF to DH have on his siblings? We've seen that Arthur gets quietly angry and Molly gets tearful. Is there anything Percy's fellow siblings could have done?
5) The Weasleys were like a real family to Harry. What's your view on this given that there were already 7 kids in the family already.
6) If you filled out the poll above, why was the character you choose your favourite?
7) Who are least alike in the Weasley family? Who's most alike? Is there an element of peer pressure on those who are least like the others? Who's the most misunderstood?

Given Arthur doesn't seem so highly motivated, do you think that his children are "over achievers". The have been very successful in their fields and indeed in school (think quidditch captains, head boys, prefects etc). If so, where do they get this drive?