Difficult question Alexia...I lost my mother very young and it sucked but my father is an ass and it's been hell...give me the good people who loved me and gave me good genes any day of the week...

Saw "Becoming Jane" on the weekend...excellent but sobbed my face off! Hence the question: would you rather find your true love and have to give him or her up or never have found eachother in the first place?