well i think that what J.K.R. is sayign is that james was goign to die and it didnt matter if it was to save his fammily or not lily chose to die for her son not knowing the porwe she might put into him by doing so and died herself also harry was saved and stoped voldy for a time now that is probley the commen sense of it and most say it the same i have my own oppinons but im not going to share them at the moment cause i hate being proved wrong so im just goign to wait to read the 7th book witch comes out in about a year also any ergon fans it comes out in theater soon and the next movie i think comes out some time next year o well have fun argueing and stuff