fenrirbound: Lots and Lots of very out load laughs! I kinda meant the "don't HAVE to roll in EVERY pile of poo you come across" to be slightly more philosophical than I wrote it (funny how that happens when you're on the net). I reckon that when I was in my teens and 20s, I seemed to get into EVERY awful relationship and situation?! (Maybe it was that just me) I love getting older. Anyone who meet me now would think I'm totally discerning and together- got them fooled!!
See what I mean?? I don't roll in EVERY pile 'o poo that comes my way anymore!! Just like Asbestos!!

(fenrirbound's gone travelling the world for a minute. So I post this to him in his honour)